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The Connection Project by Nicole Runyon

The Connection Project

The Connection Project

A parenting blog by Nicole Runyon, LMSW.

This is an opportunity to immerse yourself into your children's developmental process.

In a world with never ending parenting advice, this resource will help you to gain a better understanding of yourself and your children, so that you can be the parent your child needs.

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Parenting with Authority & Connection

A Manifesto for Family Healing

To the families I have served, to the system I once upheld, and to the future we must forge together:

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Parenting with Authority & Connection

The Cannonball

This is where we spend most of our summer...

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Parenting with Authority & Connection

The Attitude

My 11-year-old daughter had an attitude…

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Parenting with Authority & Connection

Parent Burn Out

The U.S. surgeon general Dr. Vivek Murthy has sounded the alarm on parent burn out and declared it a public health issue. He asserts the parental load is…

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Technology & Screen Time

Surgeon General's Warning On Social Media

I don't feel like celebrating the surgeon general's warning on social media for children. It doesn't feel like a win to me.

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Parenting with Authority & Connection

Who's Really in Charge? The Kids or the Parents?

Most of the parents I work with have the same initial issues with their children with varying degrees of intensity depending on the age. Today's children…

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Technology & Screen Time

How Does Technology Hinder Childhood Development?

Child development occurs in stages. Each stage has several steps, building on the one before it to finish the stage and be ready for the next one. This…

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Parenting with Authority & Connection

Rewards and Punishments vs. Connection

What is the most effective approach to address negative behavior in children? Is it through rewards, punishments, talking, or even raising one's voice? As…

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Technology & Screen Time

Beyond the Grades: Navigating the Parent-Teen Struggle in the Age of Technology

In the ever-evolving landscape of parenting, the age-old struggle over grades has taken a technological turn. If I had a nickel for every heated…

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